Part 50 The Chronicles Of Being Sarah Marie
“You Just Can’t Make This Shit Up;
Who, What & How The Fuck Have I Survived The Unthinkable!”
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Resilience Is:
The ability of a person to adjust to, or recover readily from illness, adversity, major life changes. To respond to or recover readily from a crisis, or disruptive process, etc..
When you look up the word RESILIENCE there should be a picture of me grinning from ear to ear saying: “Ting!”🤗😂
By diving deep into our history, we can all uncover the strength we have had to utilize to make it through difficult moments and repurpose pain for our growth.
Whether you or someone you know has ever experienced emotional or physical trauma, been betrayed, mistreated, devalued, disrespected, abused, abandoned, divorced a narcissist, dealing with a chronic illness, battled depression, addiction, suffered unbearable loss, or maybe you’re just overwhelmed with life as it shows up; YOU are still here!
That means YOU have a purpose to fulfill!
Turn that test into a testimony! Your mess into your message and mission to make a difference. Then use your pain as fuel to power-up your purpose!
When you choose to focus your attention not on what was done, or is happening to you, but always on what you have survived, it changes your experience from the dreaded victim mentality of “Oh whoa is me”, to the warrior mindset of “OH WOW look at what I have survived and what God has brought me through!”🙏🏽
Most importantly, what did you learn about YOU, and what lessons, value & benefit you gained as a result of surviving it all. When you change the way you see a thing - the thing you see will change!
I can’t tell you how many near death experiences I’ve had just this year alone. Like last night when I almost put my eye out and cracked my head open, yet was able to get up and roll away without a scratch.
No matter the trauma or devastation I may encounter, I live in a perpetual state of gratitude, joy, hope and belief simply because I actually woke up when I know that: “Millions didn’t make it, but I was one of the ones who did!”
NOW begins his “Timeline Of Retaliation” and what I am surviving, as a result of sharing the truth in my memoir (that he never even read), setting boundaries, cutting off all communication, and filing for a divorce the 2nd time:
October 20, 2022
The same day and right after my final text when I finally chose to love, honor, respect, value, validate, & appreciate MYSELF.
I told my husband that I didn’t want to talk to him anymore and that I was done. ***I had already asked for a divorce. 5-6 times from June 27, 2020 - October 27, 2022.***
This was his response:
Ok. So here's the deal.
I fu@ked Tricksy behind your back. I love her dearly and life is wonderful with her in it.
Ok there. I owned that 100%
Now that you have gotten my confession lets get on to business.
Just text me back and say you are willing to just walk away with no financial expectations from me going forward.
I tried to offer you money every month but I am ok if you want to "be free of expectations".
I am fine with that.
Just send a text that you don't want to work with me to figure out your finances going forward.
I'll give you $3300 a month and will give you the paid off car.
Just agree with that in writing and we will go from there.
As far as your book is concerned. You acted in bad faith with “Val” and others. Its just the law, Sarah. You can't deceive people and violate their privacy in an attempt to make money.
You fu@ked your own book project by not following some basic rules of privacy, etc
You are just upset that you wanting to do it yourself blew up in your face because you didn't get legal advice.
It is what it is.
Anywhoo.
We don't need to talk at all.
Just text back your agreement with this:
1. $3300 a month.
2. Paid off car and you return the lincoln to “Ava”.
3. Your life insurance payout will be reduced to $50,000
4. I have another policy on you I paid off that will give Nedra $75,000 upon your death. If you want that to go to someone else let me know.
5. I'll pay your cell phone bill.
Just text back your agreement with these terms and no discussion is necessary.
Does this work for you?
Thanks. :-)
October 21, 2022 (The day after):
Stated in a text:
Hey I thought about it and I know the Lincoln is very comfortable so I will let you keep it.
The house however, I AM JUST NOT WILLING ANYMORE to spend that kind of money for you because of the whole trust thing.
I just can’t allow her (Cookie Dome) to live in an apt and you live in luxury after doing that to her. It’s her time now.
But the car is another thing and not that big of a deal.
Have a good weekend.:)
October 23, 2022
i need to speak with you real quick. no drama. no bullshit but its important. have someone listen in if you want to but we need to talk. i am trying to help u. call me.
October 24, 2022
Drained and closed our joint account taking $26k and transferring it to his personal acct.
October 24, 2022
I was accused of “duping” the person who wrote the Forward in my book. A signed letter was sent to my Publisher to cease and desist distribution, marketing and any further social media posts about my book and threatened to sue them if they didn’t.
My ability to earn an income with my book project, signings that were scheduled, and events to speak were thwarted.
It took me 9 years to complete because I sacrificed so much of myself and put my dreams on hold to support his and him. It took him less than 30 days to remove my work from distribution.
October 24-25, 2022
Group thread with Dick, Cookie & “Ava” (realtor & friend who co-signed for the car)
Cookie stating Dick did not have the “authority” to make the decision to “let” me keep the car. That the car was the property of Company and on behalf of the company, she decided that it needed to be returned to “the company”.(In contempt hearing, under oath, on May 15, 2023 she stated that she “worked for” Dick as a bookkeeper in the Company unlike in a previous email to my attorney stating she was the CEO)
If I chose to ignore her request, she would either contact Lincoln for a voluntary repossession or file a police report for THEFT.
Dick said he would let me “use” his daughter’s 2011 Honda until I got another car.
Our Realtor and friend was speaking on behalf of Dick asking me to give keys back to Dick and that she would voluntarily giving the car back to Lincoln.
***I never worked for the Company, nor did I use the car for biz purposes. (Cookie was never present at any dealership, for any of the cars I drove and Dick was the only person I ever communicated with about the car.***
October 26, 2022
Facebook Post: Scoreboard bowling with Cookie.
Filed for Divorce a 2nd time.
October 27, 2022
Dick and Cookie had locksmith change the locks on my home and changed garage door code revoking access. (Have text from him stating that he and Cookie were in the driveway with locksmith. At this time I didn’t feel safe or protected and was at my brother’s place.)
Sent email to my attorney and me that it was her decision as CEO of Tek to sever ties with me and terminate the lease. (I never had biz ties with or worked for her or Tek & Dick was the only one I ever communicated with about the rent, just like with the car.
Dick stole my laptop, monitor and printer that he purchased for me to take forex training from him. He lied and told my attorney that he loaned it to me.
Went through, and read my emails.
October 27, 2022 Messages from my husband:
Hey. Just so you are informed. We are about to pull up to the house and our meeting a locksmith there.
Your permission to be in that home has been revoked and we are changing the locks and the access to the garage.
A letter has also been sent to the landlord to inform her that the lease is being terminated and that you do not have permission to be in that house anymore.
There will be a letter taped to your front door and if you wish to discuss this or get access to the house you need to call Cookie .
Hey. I am sure all of this is stressful so I won't attempt to communicate with you anymore.
Let's just let this play out and see what happens but ... if you want to talk about the stock you can get, let me know because stock/ notes cannot be transferred unless the CEO authorizes it so that could be problematic because you know who the CEO is. She would have to eventually sign off but she can cause major delays.
“You’ve awakened and you’ve taken back control over your life. Validate your grief while allowing yourself to celebrate the ways you’ve been freed.” — Self-Care Haven
Love & Light,
Sarah Marie🌹
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