“You Just Can’t Make This Shit Up;
Who, What & How The Fuck Have I Survived The Unthinkable!”
LISTEN! Every communication and action I share details the subtleties, and not so subtle displays of domestic abuse.
Narcissists respond with anger and hostility towards rejection, they disrespect others' boundaries and devalue them, and can degrade, insult, or blame others who disagree with them or challenges their inflated, yet fragile ego’s, i.e.; Edging God Out.”
No matter how much effort was put forth to calm the waters, express gratitude, speak in a respectful tone, or extend Grace even when it wasn’t deserved, it goes unnoticed when communicating with an individual whose primary goal is to incite fear and maintain control, particularly when they use financial influence as a means of leverage.
Sept.5, 2020:
Sarah:
I pray for you everyday D that you're happy and at peace 🙏🏼
I pray for everyone who's been affected and hurt by this, including me... I don't think I'd make it through any more pain...I worry and have a sense of fear of the unknown but am working through it so I won't cause a bigger ulcer or more damage...this shit is heavy...my niece and my husband I believe would be hard for anyone to wrap their heart and head around 😢
September 13, 2020
(I had asked Dick a couple of days before if he could help me with my printer, at the time he could help, my sister was over for lunch. I asked if he could come after she left and instead of just saying ok, enjoy your lunch - this is how he chose to respond):
“You are totally insane! I am doing EVERY FUCKING thing in the world for your ass and you want to shun me off so your damn sister won't get butt hurt by seeing me.
What blows my mind is no one is in their feelings about being in the pool I pay for or riding with your ass in the car I pay for but now they can't hold their over seeing me in MY shit I'm keeping for you!
You and your peeps got some real fucked up ways.
And what the fuck has Nedra been through that she can't function in the place I'm paying for with me there to do shit YOU ASKED ME TO DO FOR YOU!
Didn't nobody fuck her man! Damn girl ... you are a whole ass trip!
12:50pm
The landlord is getting 4,000 a month because Im looking out for your ass and you wanna play me like that!???
Damn right that shit is fucked!
Sarah: 12:56pm
I know Dick I'm so sorry 😢. Just trying to figure out how to live this new fucked up reality and normal while maintaining sanity AND having to depend on you for everything I'm about to crack the fuck up and go over the damn edge...this shit is hard enough as it is without having to be berated by you ... I don't expect you to understand how Ned has been hurt...just know that she has😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Dick: 1:02pm
I wonder if Nedra would tell her ex-husband to stay away from the crib he pays for so you won't be on tilt?
Sarah: 1:14pm
Is it my home because like you have said so many times, I've earned it and deserve it, or is it the home you pay for with conditions? It's more about me than Ned or anyone D...
"I" don't want to deal with discomfort..."I" want to relax and enjoy lunch with my sister without you telling me how I allowed her to disrespect you in the home you pay for after you allowed that girl to disrespect me in OUR home for MONTHS... I don't understand how much more you want from me Dick...dammit mannnnnn I'm doing the best I can through all of this SHIT😢😢😢
Sarah: 2:09pm
I wouldn't ever want to do anything to offend, disrespect or shun you Dick...everything you have done to and for me and continue to do is GREATLY appreciated.
Dick: 2:16pm
i get your point. get mine. don't blow me off to cater to someone else's issues.
Tricksy nor nedra have anything to do with how Dick and sarah deal with Dick and sarah.
lets keep it that way.
make sense?
Sarah: 2:36pm
NO mannnnn😳
I agree that our biz is our biz, but when one half of our is ME and I just ask the other half YOU to cut me some slack... I pray that you can just "get me" without making it about me slighting you...it's just me dealing with this crap whether you're taking care of shit or not, it's still hard, emotional, heartbreaking and soul crushing...fuck dude, just fuck😳. If it wasn't so tragic that you can't find it in your heart or head to understand it would be hilarious but it's not😢
#YouJustCan’tMakeThisShitUp!🤯
EMOTIONAL EXPLOITATION:
“When a person will use your dependence on them to manipulate, and to exploit your emotions to control your behavior and get an outcome that they want.”
It is profoundly difficult communicating with someone whose main objective is control and dominance, rather than connection. It is an exhausting dynamic to endure, and the interactions I am sharing clearly display the perpetual merry-go-round and roller coaster of disrespect and emotional exploitation.
It is enlightening, yet painful, to realize that the thoughts of an abuser, remain strictly centered on what they want, need, and desire—even after abuse or betrayal has occurred.
#YouJustCan’tMakeThisShitUp #knowyourworth #loveyourself #protectyourheart #leadwithlove
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